I have a couple of tattoos that are somewhat awkward to bring up when dating. Now that it's winter I go out with sweaters and long sleeves, so she won't see the tattoos on my upper arms. I'm worried that if I bring up my tattoos on the first date, she'll flip out, but if I wait and tell her later, like a month or so she'll be mad at why I didn't tell her before. Or I could just forget about it, and ignore that fact I have these tattoos when she does eventually see them and hope she can do the same.
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Honestly I didn't think they were that bad. So if she freaks or is distant towards you I'd say to hell with it. Everyone has tattoos. I think if she's your girl. She'll love them as much as she loves you.
I would definately not tell her on the first date because then you can gauge if your gonna see her again.
On the second date, I'd say something like. "So do you have any tattoos or piercings?"
And then she'll ask you and you'll say yeah. and show her.
It really shouldn't be a big deal.2