to someone in the world you could be the most beautiful thing they've ever seen.
to someone else in the world you could be utterly revolting...we are gods or monsters in someones eyes, know what I mean? either way I'm sure there are a plethora of guys out there that are dying for a girl with a toned and defined body.
I love toned women. However, when I see one I would just assume that our priorities are too different for it to work. If fitness is that important to her then my laid back, contemplative lifestyle will likely be a mismatch. But physically, I find a healthy woman very attractive.