I've toyed with the idea of wearing a bikini type swimsuit, but probably never will. A big reason is because of my religion, and wanting to be more modest. (I would maybe wear skirt, and a "crop top" top). The other big reason was because, going to beach I saw a lot of girls who didn't particuarly look great in a bikini, and I was afraid that I wouldn't look good either. I know wearing a bikini can be a confidence builder, but do you think all girls should do it? I personally think any girl is allowed to wear a bikini, but I would hope they wouldn't wear a bikini if it didn't exactly compliment them. What are your thoughts?
Well, if body confidence is the only problem you're having, I can tell you right now that you would look amazing (btw I love the dress you're wearing in your pic!)! But modesty... yeah. I'm looking to be more modest in the way I dress as well. Recently I bought this really cute bathing suit, it has a skirt attached and it looks like a cute dress, but made out of bikini fabric. So if you're looking to wear something modest while swimming that could be great for you. Those are cute and fashionable and won't make you feel left out.
Should everyone wear a bikini? Honestly, I really want to say yes... But I have to say no. Not everyone can pull off a tight dress or skinny jeans, not everyone can pull off a bikini even though quality and cut can help tremendously when choosing the right one for your bodytype. I'm overweight and I won't wear them anymore (I used to be skinny and wear them, but since I gained so much weight I stopped).
But if other people feel comfortable wearing them, then I don't care, not for me to say or judge I guess.
No, not all girls should wear bikinis. If you don't have the body for it, it's only going to emphasize that. On the other side of that coin, if you look good in one, by all means wear one. If that is you on your profile, I'd say you should wear one.
As long as she feels comfortable in it, I have no problem with any girl wearing one. Although, frome one's perspective, it might not be such a pleasant sight. But then again, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
I don't see why everyone should wear a bikini.. It bothers me that most stores here sell only identical bikinis, at least for young women. I 'd like to try on different styles but I can't find a place that sells them.. It makes sense that a woman would be more confident in a swimsuit style that looks good on her
Girls should be able to wear whatever swimwear, at whatever level of modesty that they are comfortable wearing. That said, I think there are some girls and women who probably need to visualize what others see when they are wearing some bikinis in public.
I'm thin, with smaller breasts (B-cup) and I still kinda worry sometimes about either showing too much or not looking too good when I wear a bikini. My guy, bless his heart would never tell me that I didn't look good in a too tight or too loose bikini. I think he just likes the view no matter what. = }
If you are self conscious about wearing a bikini or other swimwear at the beach try a cover up. Remember, almost every girl at the beach is worrying how they look in their bikini too!
Same goes for big hairy guys wearing super tight speedos, we saw this guy last weekend at the ocean wearing a red speedo suit that showed everything under it, he had nothing to show off! Then there was the chest and back hair, could have sworn he was wearing a sweater with his speedo!! Icky!!