It is like ALMOST EVERY post that i see on this site of a woman asking how beautiful she is, men say that she is cute or beautiful, THEN TELL ME MEN, WHAT are you beauty standards? List them out SPECIFICALLY.
I feel that guys say one thing and honestly mean another. But not like they're trying to intentionally be mean or anything. They may say your pretty, because it may be obvious she's pretty. But they're not necessarily attracted to you and your not a date standard. So they're not lying they just wouldn't really want to date her. I also think guys have two standards: fuckable and dateable. and I think their standard for sex is a lot more open than their standard for dating. Typically the standard for sex is "not fat", yet u don't see many chubby or less pretty girls getting dates. So based on their base I would have sex with you standard, they're okay.
Usually if I see a rate me question where the chick is fat or unattractive or skanky looking I just don't answer it because I'd rather not hurt their feelings and stir up drama. But yeah I think my standards are higher than most guys. I'm not looking to settle.
I agree with creepy. Sometimes when I click a thread involving 'how do I look' I often don't reply in fear of offending the girl. I don't have very high beauty standards, but I judge people differently from a picture than I usually would in real life. A picture makes a person look less attractive for some reason, so just because I don't think someone is attractive here, doesn't mean that they aren't attracted to me at all. Anyway people have different preferences. As for beauty standards. I really don't have much. The prerequisites just involves not being obese and your face shouldn't have any sort of piercings, ear is an except. That's the general rule.