It is like ALMOST EVERY post that i see on this site of a woman asking how beautiful she is, men say that she is cute or beautiful, THEN TELL ME MEN, WHAT are you beauty standards? List them out SPECIFICALLY.
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I feel that guys say one thing and honestly mean another. But not like they're trying to intentionally be mean or anything. They may say your pretty, because it may be obvious she's pretty. But they're not necessarily attracted to you and your not a date standard. So they're not lying they just wouldn't really want to date her.
I also think guys have two standards: fuckable and dateable. and I think their standard for sex is a lot more open than their standard for dating. Typically the standard for sex is "not fat", yet u don't see many chubby or less pretty girls getting dates. So based on their base I would have sex with you standard, they're okay.1