If he's emotionally wrought then I don't see that as weakness, especially if I'm capable of helping him. Emotion is a weakness for everyone. I find a guy to be weak if he lies, cheats, steals, is a revenge seeker, takes out underestimated emotions on other people, or thinks love is some sort of a game. These people are off the list for me. A weakness is anything that ruins a person inside, and often times the person doesn't realize what their weakness is or that it's even ruining them.. Sometimes what you think is your strength is what ruins you inside. Ruined people can change though, and I'm always open to give second chances. Negativity, in short, is not something I'm attracted to.
A woman, or by proxy his emotions. By that I in no way mean, that a guy who's crying or showing his emotions is weak in any way. I actually think a guy who is willing to not hide things like that is a lot stronger.
I mean a woman a guy cares for makes him 'weak' because a lot of his reasoning will be thrown out the window. He'll do things he normally would never imagine doing, or stop doing things that were previously the norm, all to keep his woman and ensure that she's happy.
when he is almost crying whining or just acting snobby makes him pretty weak in my eyes. it makes me think that he can't do anything in life but those things and wouldn't be able to supply for a family in the future. or guys who go around with girls constantly, that applies to the snob but its a MAJOR turnoff.