and not to your body. seriously it gets on my nerves.
I'm tired of guys only liking me for my body. (yes I'm a jerk magnet)
i mean I am a woman, of course I do love to go shopping, wear high heels & dresses but that doesn't mean I'm as shallow as Paris Hilton.
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Guys like sex, and sexy ladies. There's not much to be done about that.
It sounds to me like you're feeling frustrated because you're not very good at picking up on the "red flags" of whether he's a jerk or not.
Most attractive women will attract jerks, but it's the wise ladies who know NOT to escalate these interactions. This doesn't mean you need to amp up your "Bitch Shield", which seems to be a fairly popular method, but instead I'd suggest you simply learn how to "Ignore" the gross guys, and "Score" the cool ones.
If you're reacting positively to the general attention of men (perhaps because you're still young and not socially calibrated) then you'll continue to invite the jerks into your life.
Pay attention, learn to spot the creepers from across the room, and only chat up the dudes who display honest intentions. These are the guys who don't waste a lot of time complimenting you, or spending time looking at your cleavage. They will also be more honest about their intentions (they'll flirt if they find you cute, and they'll banter just for the fun of conversation.)
Breast of luck!
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