In other words...how do I dress for a guy to take me seriously as "dating potential" ? I have my own style but id like to know what guys look for in a girl clothing wise. I'm not going for a one night stand sexy look or an uptight gal either. I'm looking for something that screams "DATABLE" lol how do I achieve that look and please give me serious answers. I'm NO idiot
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Where are you looking to meet guys?
That always plays a big part. The key is being 'you' but approchable at the same time.
You want to be able to express yourself through your clothes - people are immediately going to get some sort of an impression about you based on the way you dress - and you don't want them to be completely off base with their initial opinion of your character.
From my experience - generally 'dating potential' rather than a hook up for a night or two - are normally more 'cute' than out and out sexy. That's not to say you can't be sexy, sophisticated and cute at the same time.
Never over board on the make up, fake tan. A little goes a long way; a smokey eye here, and red lips there are always good - but don't go too over board. It normally screams high maintenance. Same with the hair. Natural volume is usually good, not too 'stuck to the head straight' as you sometimes see.
Either legs, or chest. One or the other - never both at the same time, it's more often than not just trampy.
It's hard to say what to wear based on the little I know about your character, job, lifestyle, bodytype etc.
But here's some good looks for maybe different styles.
-High waisted skirt (plain in colour - probably black) Dressy blouse (maybe ruffle detail, or a pattern..) a thin, coloured waist belt. Heels (in black or the same as belt)
- The little black dress, accompanied with a smile is always a winner - as long as you don't take yourself to seriously in it.
-Fitted jeans, heels, and a detailed, delicate top - maybe in a chiffon or sheer fabric.
- Cute, little flowery day dress, oversized cardigan.
Decide what feature you want to focus on - and play off that.0