I don't know if is a confidence issue, or the fact that I hate to open up to girls in general. I am the type of dude that is not really touch-feely, or things along those lines. The thing is I don't know if that is what is causing the problem of me not getting a girlfriend?
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I don't NEED a guy to open up to me for me to be happy in a relationship. Also, when I just meet a guy, he needs to focus less on being deep, and more on making a good impression for me to want to go out with him. There is more to love than sharing. And I hope other girls will agree with me. But of course, we still like for our boyfriends to open up to us everyonce in a while, even if it's just a little thing. Talk about something that's on your mind every once in a while, and she'll see that you trust her. If a girl doesn't feel that her boyfriend trusts her, they aren't going much further. Also, a deep conversation once you really think you are falling for her, is going to touch her.
Touchy feely for me, isn't that great either. I'm really not into PDA, not even holding hands in the mall. No, it's not an embarassment thing, it's just me being private and keeping our feelings between us instead of shouting them out to the world. But still, if we're sitting watching a movie, it's nice if he puts his arm around me, or hugs me every so often. Hugs are good.0