Are you kidding me? You're not ugly at all, but you are carrying a frown in this picture. Hopefully you don't do that all the time. :( With a frown I'd only give you a 6 because you look unhappy and not so confident. I love confident guys and girls are like vultures. They can pick up on guys who don't like themselves. Why do you say you are sick of being lied to? Do you want your family to tell you that you are ugly even if you are not?
Trust me you are not ugly, but if you'd show some confidence you probably be darn cute. Post a picture of yourself looking like you enjoy life and then see what kind of answers you get.