I don't know why, but I have an inexplicable attraction to blondes, out of a group of girls I will always notice the blonde girl first. Honestly the difference between dyed and not dyed I don't pay enoguh attention to care. I like brunettes and redheads too, but blondes are the instant attraction
I'm a brunette and I don't think there's anything wrong with me putting highlights in my hair. I'm not tired of seeing natural blonds so I'm not sure why you're tired at looking at those who dye their hair blond unless that's all you do all day.
I just put highlights in my hair, then go to work and I might glance at someone who has weird hair or natural hair-whatever-not a big deal-I have more important things to do.