I am 20 and am a senior in college. I have never had a girlfriend, kissed a girl or anything beyond that. I'm not one to walk up to a total stranger and strike up a conversation, and because of this I rarely meet girls. I'd say I'm pretty good looking, semi confident, I'm in a band, and I'm a pretty nice and funny guy. I feel like I'm going to end up being 40 at this rate and never been on a date.
I am shy but I'm not at all scared to talk to girls. I just can't bring myself to ask a girl out mostly because I've never done it before and don't really know where to go or what to do.
No, I don't think you're pathetic. You just sound like a nice guy who's shy and hasn't gotten out there yet. If you want a girlfriend or just a date, gather your confidence and just go for it. Nothing changes when you stay in your comfort zone, branch out and meet people.
You most certainly are not the only one I think everyone is alittle shy just push yourself to talk to a girl there's lots of young men just like you.Be confident in yourself and if a girls see's that she'll notice you, you sound like a nice guy I'm sure girls would fall for you.Just try talking to them your not patheic, it might take time but you'll get it.