I haven't been wearing pants since the beginning of puberty. I'm 21 now. I'm a tall, skinny girl but I have always had wide hips. I was being bullied for this and it resulted in an eating disorder and always hiding my butt behind skater skirts and lose dresses. Now I have decided to make peace with jeans and ordered a pair online. But I'm already nervous to even try them on.. Does anyone know the feeling of being too much this or that to wear a sudden clothing item?
Skirts or dresses. Few reasons for it: - biking with them isn't a joy or not even possible (I bike everyday) - dresses that are wider at the bottom (skater skirts etc) look a bit awkward on me - dresses and skirts that do look good at me are often very tight and then my body issues are too visible - I'm always afraid people see my underwear or make fun of my extremely white legs or something.
It's good your deciding to try them, I'm tall and I find tall/thin women very attractive, especially in jeans. 😉
I used to always wear sweatpants because jeans would be too loose or too short on me. When I put on some weight I could finally wear proper fitting jeans, but nowadays lots of guys my age wear sweatpants, I wore what was "in", before it became popular 😄
I used to avoid wearing shorts at all costs. I've always had big legs. Thunder thighs and such. After losing weight but still not losing much if my thighs I decided that I wasn't gonna be ashamed of my thighs anymore. Been wearing shorts ever since.
I feel you, I haven't worn jeans in so many years as well, but that's because I live in a tropical country and I find them really itchy. I think you should go for it! If you try them on, and you don't like them, don't wear them! wear what you like and makes you feel good. 💓
I hate wearing jogging bottoms or stretch jeans cause I always think I look awfull or someone's going to say something insulting and I can't really ask my friends what do they think cause most of them are teenage guys so...