Ok I'm a big guy, I'm 6 foot 300 pounds with longish blonde hair and blue eyes, I also just graduated high school. I wouldn't say I'm ugly but I definitely have more to love. And it seems for some reason that the only girls that have immediate interest in me are bigger or less conventional looking girls and I'm sorry but I am in no way attracted to them so that means that all the girls that I like I have to work really hard for them, and it always ends up stuck at the friend stage. Its happened sooo many times I can't count, I like a girl and when I finally tell her or she realizes that I like her I get the whole "i only like you as a friend" thing. So I guess what I'm asking is am I doomed to a life stuck at the friend stage?
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No you are not doomed. But you said you weren't attracted to bigger girls right? Hate to say it but though the inside counts a lot, looks matter too. If the girl is not physically attracted to you then it won't work. The way lots of girls feel about it is that if they are taking the time to stay fit and healthy they expect the guy to do the same. I'm not saying that you have to be a body builder or anything like that. I'm saying you need to take care of yourself.
Take some time this summer to work on getting healthy. Its not too hard. I had to when I found out I had a tumor. Try to keep the fast food eating down to at most once a week. Portion control will help. And eat lots of small meals throughout the day so you don't end up getting super hungry and having to stuff yourself. Eat as healthy as you can. Do lots of cardio but make sure you are doing lots of weight training too. Cardio burns fat and the weight training will turn it into muscle. You have to have both for it to be successful.0