I feel like just having my eyebrows threaded (so the tiny, fine hairs aren't there) is all I really need to feel "okay, I look human". Lol, that's about it honestly.
I'm not HUGE on makeup. I'll put on some mascara here and there, eyeliner if I'm really feeling fancy.
I really dislike lipstick, since my lips already look like I've bit them for 100 years lol, and I have naturally reddish cheeks which is weird but hey works for me. I don't have perfect skin though, really sensitive skin actually. But meh, I've learned to not care anymore and for some reason it's been working and people have been like "wow you look freaking great" lol. The secret? Don't give a crap.
Literally I haven't a clue - Honestly I could be in one room with a mirror and go "Hmmm, not bad 5/6" then walk a 100 metres into another room to look in a mirror to go "No, not great 2/3" - Like all I do is keep clean which I do anyway by showering regularly.
They make or break my attractiveness. I don't need makeup, I just need my eyebrows to be on point. Which I guess an eyebrow pencil and wax are technically makeup, but I mean I don't need it elsewhere on my face.
I feel much more attractive on days that I workout actually. Also I'm like you, if my hair is done I feel much better. I always try to wear nicer clothes too even if I'm just staying home (of course I have my lounge times as well).
Most people have a hard time understanding that life is all about perception. I once dated a woman who had an orange tree growing from her pelvis, yet she had men standing in line to take her out. Her secret? She always carried a flask of vodka in her purse, and she could pluck off an orange and whip up a Screwdiver at the drop of a hat. I miss her to this very day.