How do you remove your selves from the "liking" part of hooking up? I just don't understand how you can like someone's appearance but not care at all about their personality.
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It's easy when you don't identify them as something with value.
It's like girls with clothes, to get the latest fashion sense. Some girls actually get pregnant deliberately so they can have that new accessory.
Some people learn to get what they want whenever they want, they just have to disregard others feelings. Jerks get what they want with no consequences except perhaps a backlash of guilt for being a jerk. No reason to feel guilty if you don't care though. No reason to care if... well, if htere's no reason TO care. Why care about a t-shirt you wear to look good or a shaver past the inconvenience of getting another?0