Im not talking about a natural look. I mean full face makeup like with contoured cheekbones to make the face seem slimmer, or long dark eyelashes with perfectly highlighted facial feautres and eyeshadow (pictures below). Do you think makeup gives false expectations about the true beauty of someone or do you not mind it if the person feels more confident with it on? What do you think about the phrase "makeup is the reason why you should take a girl swimming on a first date"? I personally dont find it deceiving at all and that people should wear it for themselves to make themselves feel confident, but im curious about other opinions
Most Helpful Guy
Must admit I've dated a few women where I really wish they kept their make-up on in the bedroom. It's like, "Wow, she's gorgeous, I'm really into her."
Then, when it comes night time, she takes off her make-up and wants to elevate things and I feel like I'm looking at a different face than the one I was falling for during the date. It's kind of a shallow confession, but it's not just about beauty but also about familiarity, like this was the face I was looking at the whole date. I'm not so horrible that I'll refuse to sleep with her on that account, but it is a bit disappointing when that happens.
That said, the make-up definitely can work. Deceptive or not, it definitely catches my attention.0
Most Helpful Girl
Personally, no. The reason I say no is because makeup is a very visible clear alteration. When I see a girl with heavy makeup, I know she doesn't look like that naturally. I think if you get with a girl who constantly has heavy makeup, you need to be prepared for the fact that she isn't going to be this doll-like perfect creature when she takes it all off. Maybe it's because I'm a girl, but I can spot contour, I can spot overdrawn lips, and so on. It's easy enough to see it's "fake" so it's not deceiving to me.1