alright I would like an HONEST answer guys, is being not-that-attractive a COMPLETE turn-off? Is there any chance?
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Loaded question, but I think I can help answer this. This is what I think. Physical attraction is the absolute FIRST step to any sort of meaningful relationship. Don't let anybody else tell you otherwise. There is absolutely no way someone will approach you and start a conversation without being physically attracted to you. Let me be clear, this is someone approaching you whom is single, looking for a relationship, and wants to get to know you more. This isn't talking to a random stranger for directions or an elderly person. Here's the important thing to realize.
Physical attraction is a definition that YOU YOURSELF define. What I'm saying here is there are PLENTY of people out there that will think you're hot, no matter what physical qualities you have. You just got to find the person where the physical attraction is mutual. So yes, there's a chance with any man you encounter that he will think your attractive.
I have a sneaking suspicion, sorry if I offend you, that you may not be happy with your looks. You're confidence seems low because your not happy with your looks. Question is, what will you do to make you happy with yourself? Being happy with yourself builds confidence and will open doors to things way beyond finding a relationship.2