I'm laid back, very sarcastic, I make a lot of small talk and flirting. just can't seem to attract a good decent smart girl that will take me seriously. I don't have one style, I can be hardcore, preppy, emo, gangster. get along with a lot of people. easy to talk to. very nice, maybe a little too nice?
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You sound just like me. I'm very sarcastic, laid back, and easy to talk to, and my room is messy (though I'm not hardcore, preppy, emo, or gangster).
One reason people might not pay attention to you, is if you're sarcastic with people you don't know well. I have this problem all the time. People NEVER get when I'm joking, unless they know me well, and even then, sometimes they don't get it. The only people who always get my sarcasm are my siblings, who also tend to be sarcastic.
So what I'm saying is, if people don't have a sense of humour, they won't appreciate yours, or may even be offended by a joke that they don't realize is a joke. Or possibly, they're put off or intimidated by your intelligence/ability to find something witty to say. Sometimes I wonder if that's why people never seem to notice me.
There's hope. I think it just takes a girl with a sense of humour similar to yours. I would be thrilled if I met a guy with a sense of humour, and sarcasm.0