some guys have said I'm not cute or hot, some guys say that I am. My boyfriend says I'm beautiful.
I don't think I'm UGLY, but are the guys who are telling me I look good just trying to get something? or lying?
I feel more apt to believe the guys who say I'm not cute or hot, I feel like they are being more honest.
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"Attractiveness" contains so many more levels than sexual physical attraction. There are many other physical aspects of a girl which create an overall picture of attraction but aren't sexually related. Likewise, there are many non-physical traits in a girl that make her attractive, all contained within her personality. The great thing about it: attractiveness is entirely subjective depending on the interests and personality of the person being attracted. Some times, it has little or almost nothing to do with a girl's physical attraction because some people find that less important. Everyone has their own balance of what they find attractive. So the answer is yes, a girl can absolutely be attractive without being hot or even cute by general standards.1