So I'm supposed to put on my makeup. do my hair. buy sexy clothes. wear heels. etc. etc. all that stuff that girls are supposed to do.
Either I do these things and get called a slut, whore, easy, high-maintenance, snobby, bitchy.
or I don't do these things and be called plain, boring, ugly, etc.
I don't understand. What are girls supposed to be like! How do you look feminine and sexy, without looking like you're trying to look feminine and sexy?
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You get called negative things by people for doing nothing but presenting yourself a certain way. If you are not rude to these people then the problem is with them!
I noticed a long time ago that usually certain girls who react to girls who fit your description are JEALOUS! A girl who feels good about herself would not be so unnecessarily angry to someone who dresses up, unless of course the other girl happens to look better than her and she can't take it! If you see a bad bitch gettin shine you should love it! Well if you're confident you will. If not then you will hate.
And when it's a guy doing that usually he is either frustrated that you seem unattainable to him or out of his league. Or maybe you turned him down. The guys who do that are haters too. Sometimes you can't win, girls who do look feminine are wanted but some guys hate them because they can't have them, and girls who do dress plainer make those same guys feel more comfortable but then they're mad at you because you look like that! Brush it off if you're doing something right people will hate. Don't let it get to you, they are obviously miserable if they will lash at you like that.3