I find it terrible that is ladies have to wear a bikini top or bra meanwhile guys can walk around wherever without a shirt on.. What's the big difference? Ours just are a bit bigger but we all have nipples? Why be shy and have to hide it?
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- I already do it (girls)7%(4)4%(5)Vote1%(1)
Most Helpful Guy
Well, I mean, I can see both sides... but just don't be surprised when you get looks from guys when your boobs are hanging out. Guys find boobs attractive. Can't quite help that. One can change the law, but one can't really change biology.
I don't think boobs are considered "sexual organs" from societal reasons. I think their sexuality has more has to do with the human psych itself. It is how we are wired. It is innately in us to find boobs sexually appealing, just like a butt. You can trace it back to evolution with signs of fertility and such... hence why one simply can't change their mindset.
So from that, it is going to get the same attention as showing something sexual in public. If you feel comfortable doing it, well, more power to you, but it would be crazy then to complain when suddenly you get more things like...
-- Checking out / sexual-ish stares in public
-- Annoyance/angry stares by people who don't appreciate you showing boobs in front of them
... and so forth.
It's like the semi-popular internet picture but taken to a more extreme level:
Like you can wear what you want, but just be aware of possible results.
Is that still "unfair?" Well, then I guess that's just life unfortunately. Life/biology is unfair at its core. If it was completely fair, we'd all be 6 ft, asexually reproduce, have no gender, and all look exactly the same. It just happens to be women's sexuality is different than men and thus reactions are different to various things.5
Most Helpful Girl
The big difference between why men can walk around topless relatively freely in comparison to men is that female breasts are secondary sexual characteristics.
I'm sure that there are many public places in certain cities and regions in which females are perfectly free to walk around with their breasts hanging out. Let's not forget, though, that if you choose to do this, you're choosing to also bare the load of the endless ogling/catcalling, etc.. that you'll undoubtedly receive from any men who you encounter at the time.5
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