So my boyfriend hates my redhair! We've been together almost 8 years and he's always seen me with blonde highlights (to start) and then after years of highlighting it, it went blonde all the way. I got sick of paying almost $80 every month an 1/2 to fix my roots. So I went natural. I just started loving my hair; I had a bad childhood with being a redhead (that's why I went blonde) but he looks at me like it's gross and tells me I need to go back blonde. He actually had the nerve to ask me if I didn't care about my appearance anymore. He's even willing to pay for me to go back blonde because he hate's it so much. I mean is redhair really that ugly in a guy's view. Be honest.. It won't hurt my feelings, I hear it everyday at home lol. I know he loves me. He tells me I'm pretty, but he also tells me I look better blonde. I don't really have freckles, they're mostly on my arms. He doesn't complain about them, or my green eyes, he just hates my hair!! Help lol...
Most Helpful Guy
Only if you think it is cuz it's your view to the world that makes you who you are and how people perceive you3
Most Helpful Girl
As a natural redhead I understand wanting to change your hair color cause I have had my hair almost every color under the sun however I have noticed a lot of guys and girls hit on me more as a redhead than when I had my hair black for example. If he is so crazy about your hair color then find a new man! Red hair isn't ugly its just a rare color. People I think are used to the question which is hotter blonde or brunette yet they leave out red head and while we all have a preference there are many colors of hair that we are all born with. That boyfriend of yours sounds like he doesn't love you for you, that is YOUR hair color. some things we can change but its a pain and gets expensive. its up to you because its your body, to stay as your natural red or go back to being blonde but if you love your hair leave it be. Its your scalp not his that is taking the chemicals from the dye.1
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