Right now I'm trying to figure out what color I want. I really grey but my family is saying it wouldn't look right with my skin tone but I think it'll look great but I also want purple... My family said that it could work but I know a lot of people who went purple and I don't want to be the same.
I don't think grey would go with your skin tone. I think purple would look super good, judging by your profile photo... maybe if you're still iffy about it, start with purple lowlights. And if you like 'em, color all of your hair purple. Just keep in mind that it might not be an acceptable hair color for certain jobs... I've had that problem before.
If your hair is naturally dark make sure you keep your roots visible or maybe choose a darker purple tone if you don't wanna have visible roots - if you wanna go for grey I think dip dyes would be the best option ))
I was going to dye my hair silver too!!! But here's the thing: silver hair requires more maintenance than pretty much every other hair color except for white. It will damage your hair. Quite possibly a lot. So you really have to know that you have the time and funds to keep it up or just don't care about how it looks as it fades. Purple is a lot easier for most people. Both are great colors.