I actually prefer to meet a girl in person rather than chat on the phone, but I always get the feeling that girls attach great importance to handing out phone numbers and how/when the guy calls them.
A couple question for the girls out there:
-Why do girls like talking on the phone so much?
-When a guy calls you, do you always assume it's because he likes you?
-Do you ever call a guy you like first?
-How often should a guy call a girl if he's interested in her but they're not dating?
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Talking on the phone is not as great as talking to someone in real life..i don't really call my boyfriend and even with text I don't go too overboard with it..but I'm sure you're talking about when a guy and girl first met..and she handed out her phone number to you right?
to answer your questions
-every girl is different..i don't really like talking on the phone once I established a relationship with my boyfriend..BUT..the very first time I met someone lets say over the internet and I gave him my number I would like to feel comfortable with talking to you on the phone first rather than meeting you straight up..the reason why its because I want to make sure you're not a creeper (plus meeting someone from the internet is dangerous), and its a confirmation..for example: if the guy supposedly says he's 18 and in the phone he sounds like a 40 year old then bye bye to you...
-i wouldn't assume the guy likes me because he calls..the very first time I met my bf..we were realy close friends and I decided to give my number and we ended up talking on the phone instead of the internet..however, I would assume the guy likes me or at least interested in me if he says "i miss talking to you buddy" or calls me right away after work just to talk..
-i've called a guy I like first..but that was back in middle school lol..but if I am interested, I would give him my number; of course after I get to know him a little bit and know his purpose..(I hate guys that just wants to hook up and expect me to give him my number)..but again every one is different
-this question is tricky because you don't want to drive her nuts..it all depends if the girl likes you too..if you call her and she's not as interested..then you're just going to get ignored..to know if the girl likes you back, start by texting her..see if she respond..and then stop for a little bit..and call her and start off with "you're not going to believe what just happened to me" conversation..and see how well she respond..like if she sounds like she's excited then she's glad you called..and if she sounds dull and answers with uhuh..yeah...oh really?...oh cool...uhuh..suure..then leave her alone..
hope this helps..and like I said every one is different..0