I want to say it is how ever you want to keep it. I personally like clean shaving, but then I do like the facial hair too. I have dated guys with facial hair, and with out. I personally do not care. For me, whatever you look like (with hair or with out) when I first see you, I like to see you that way for the rest of the time of dating. But it is your choice and your look. Nothing should stop you if you want to change it up.
You have to have the right face in order to have facial hair. Maybe a link to a pic would help us out with this one. I personally am okay with chin hairs (go-tis) or side burns... but not beards, lamb chops or mustaches. So... If I could see your face. I would tell you the honest truth.
I LOVE facial hair! :) I think it's terribly hot. For facial hair, really anything works. Well, except I don't find it attractive when a guy tries to grow it, but really can't. Then it just looks scrappy and splotchy. X_X Which def is not cute. Turn off.