"Girls are self-conscious about their weight, Guys are self-conscious about their height"
Do you agree?
- Yes, I agreeVote A
- No, I do not agreeVote B
Most Helpful Guy
yeah it is true but only because men generally don't go for fat chicks and women generally don't go for short guys. In my opinion it makes sense that guys wouldn't go for fat girls. If you are fat then it is just not attractive, sex is not good, you are unhealthy, out of shape, less youthful, etc. There are very good reasons not to be attracted to someone fat.
The height thing on the other hand is stupid. Girls have this absolutely mental idea that somehow they need a guy who is taller than them and it is the most shallow thing I have ever heard of. I myself have never had trouble with it since I am 6'3, but the amout of women out there who claim they can't find a good guy and then admit they won't date someone short is just ridiculous. There is really no good reason for women to be like this and thus men ought not to be self conscious about it. Women have arbitrarily made men self conscious about it. Weight actually matters, height doesn't. I know women will immediately disagree but I would love to hear one good reason why height matters that isn't something stupid like "I feel like he can protect me" or "it just feels weird if he is shorter since he is supposed to be the man". These are lame reasons that don't even make sense. Fat is gross and nobody likes it. That makes sense. It isn't the stone ages. Height is meaningless these days, and actually really always was. Someone's height is related to nothing else about them. My guess is that for some reason in our early species it was considered one of those traits that were naturally selected. We are intelligent enough to know that it means nothing and has no relation to physical or mental abilities. Narrowing your choice of potential mates by such a stupid characteristic is just mad.
I want a fit girl because it is sexually attractive and I know we can do physical activities and have good sex and she will remain healthy for longer in life. What good reasons can you give for wanting a tall guy?1
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