Just trying to get that very attractive girl when I am not confident in myself and think that I am not that attractive (even though I am told otherwise). Also I am not very successful with girls never had a girlfriend, but been on a couple dates. This also is part of why I am not confident at least in this area.
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girls want that knight in shining armor... that person to lean on, someone who can protect them, keep them safe... that's why confidence is important. Confidence conveys all of that. Its confidence at first, then vulnerability after you get to know her.
If you don't show the confidence at first, its gonna be a lot harder to get a girl to be attracted to you.
you literally need to "know" you're better than her. or at LEAST her equal if you don't wanna choke and get sweaty palms etc. Own it dude! you're a guy, you're taller, faster, and stronger than her. Use your deep voice to charm her.
realize that girls honestly don't really care so much about looks... even ugly guys can get girls if they've got that charisma and confidence. you are YOU, and you are important, and worth it.0