How do you think that makes a guy feel? im right here, what the fu&k am I suppose to do with this information? brings me down. I feel less attractive, or not attractive at all. And then describing your ideal mate at the moment, and describe the opposite of me. Oh and I've been single for a very long time now. So I lose confidence, and my anxiety takes over at times. I take care of myself, im loyal, , respectful, .. can't grow a bearded and all the women I've been meeting lately are obsessed with beards.. that too is discouraging. I've been trying to change myself, upgrade myself... but never get a double take. Point is yes its ok and normal for you women to find a hot guy hot. Just when you do it a lot next to your single guy friend , think about how that makes him feel.
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Honestly thats one of things I don't understand with certain women either. I know that must make you feel like crap. Here your somebody who is just as qualifiable, but they basically want the unattainable in strangers, not somebody they personally know. I know how that feels when I had guy friends growing up. Now even though I wasn't allowed to date until 18, chose a celibate life, nobody wants to feel like their being used just to get one of your other female friends. Like your the 3rd wheel. In fact I remember being looked at like I wasn't worth it in the first place, or the idea that I can never be that for anybody. So yeah, that does hurt. All the more reason why I'm by myself.
But you know what you only have 7/10 women of this world who is superficial and wants whats in, whats hot or your not. And 3/10 or less women who wouldn't care what you look like but would love you for you. So out of the 7/10 women to 3/10 women, who are you really attracted too? The 7/10: the ones who are less interested in you, or the 3/10 women who maybe interested in you but you might not be?1