So my girlfriend went to this party on Halloween and she dressed like a total complete slut. Which is OK because its Halloween? I don't know why that makes sense. She knows I absolutely hate slutty stuff in general. And she never dresses like that ever! and then she goes to a party. Without me! I wasn't even there. Dressed like a total slut. I trust her, and I love her. I just still don't understand what she was thinking. honestly did she not even consider what I would think? Or what? I just don't get it! Please clear this one up. I've brought it up before...fail. Ha ha p*sses me off quite a bit.
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Ok, first of all, seriously, unless she cheated on you, GET OVER IT already, it was six months ago. Now that's said- I also have to tell you I dislike you using the term slut in reference to any woman but especially toward one you profess to love. A bit dergogatory- maybe you could find a different way to describe it?
Now, to answer your question- if she never dresses like that, Halloween is her chance to do something different, be someone else, experiment a little, wear something she's not quite daring enough to wear normally. It's a time of misrule- everything is topsy-turvy. Now, that being said, I don't presonally understand the custom of dressing in next to nothing and throwing on some cat ears, but I also don't really care that other women dress that way. (Actually, after the bars close and I see them walking home I feel a little sorry for them since it's FREEZING!) Your girlfriend was just having a little harmless fun, and she shouldn't have to come to you for costume approval, a sexy outfit is not reason enough to lose your trust. If that's all she did, you've been overreacting for six months and you really, really need to let it go.1