This is probably just me obsessing over nothing, but a friend of a girl I really really like posted on her Facebook wall the other day and it really hit me hard. It just like a 'hey, wasn't that hilarious in class today! I love you, we need to hang out more, bla bla bla,' and then she said 'We need to go Prom Dress Shopping'. Is that like they have dates and everything to prom and now they're going to get their dresses or is it just like we need to go look and be girly and stuff? I saw her reply today and my crush did not mention anything about prom dress shopping in it, just how funny that class was. If someone could clear this up for me, that'd be great. I have literally no idea why I'm freaking out so much. I guess cause the clock is ticking and I'm still too nervous to ask her.
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I'd just ask her. Prom is right around the corner. If you ask her, then you find out two things. 1. if she has a date, and 2. if the feelings you have for her are mutual. The message her friend posted doesn't mean anything except that she wants to go get prom dresses. You can't find out if she has a date from that at all. Maybe ask around if she has a date, but I think asking her to go with you is the better choice. Go for it! Even if you end up regretting it, in the long run it will all turn out fine. This isn't going to be the first time you like a girl, and if she doesn't like you back or has a date, whatever, there will be plenty of girls who will like you. Ten years from now, you aren't going to give a sh*t whether she said yes or not. You have your whole life ahead of you, so don't let fear stop you from getting what you want!0