what percentage does physical attraction amount to in forming a long term relationship? I mean considering the fact that the first component that you notice in a stranger is looks?
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It tells me who I'm meeting.
Of course you want them to be attractive to you, but to have a long term relationship with them has nothing to do with how attractive they are.
After a while, all that stuff goes away.
I mean there will be times when you come to yourself and think, you know what.You are hot.
I have good taste.
There is the case where you can look so good to where you last long enough for the other to fall for you and appreciate who you are. That's the game for young people though. Where all you see is the appearance of that person.
At some maturity [not some age] you figure out that looks are just not enough to be with someone. You need something more enduring.
Like a person you love to talk to.
I hope that helped.
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