I refuse to wear makeup because I want guys to like me for the real me, but it's kind of frustrating when the girls with the make up are the ones getting most of the attention. Without makeup I'm attractive in more of a down to earth cute way. I think with make up I can be more "hot", but I feel like that's fake. I've actually had guys react like they were all into me when I was dressed up and had make up on, but then act disappointed when they saw me on another day, when I had no make up, had my hair just pulled back and wearing just jeans and a t-shirt. That felt bad, but instead of wanting to wear make up and dress up all the time, I went the other way to show my real self. I figure if they're not into the real me then it would never work out anyway. Am I being too stubborn?
Most Helpful Guy
I don't think you're being stubborn. You're just being who you are, and you're comfortable with your natural appearance. I find that confidence you have to be very, very appealing. And it's not that I mind a little bit of make up tastefully applied. I have no problem with that. But a girl's natural attractiveness is SO much better than a ton of caked on make up.0
Most Helpful Girl
If any guy on here says "be natural" that is BULLSHIT. Which is why they pay attention caked on girls with makeup. You're like my sister, she refuses to wear it too.
But a way you can avoid most of the makeup is just wear mascara, lipstick or lipgloss or chap stick with color. A little bit of blush and look decent in clothes and hair. That is it. You don't need to look like a fake whore. That's what I do when I'm feeling lazy to put on makeup. And no you're not being stubborn.
The guys are the dumbasses who pick the idiots with makeup and then later want a natural girl. ...0