I like something sexy but not that makes the girl look helpless or silly. Something that makes her look sharp and gives her some power like black calf boots and black or gray wet look leggings with a matching top. That's sharp and sexy I love when girls wear stuff like that.
Also I love pant suits the less frilly the better all those frills and ruffles that are supposed to look "feminine" just look cartoonish the outfit should look serious like an adult whos out in the world and playing for keeps would wear I can respect a woman like that and find that very attractive.
I don't like heels for the same reason I mean who walks around on their toes all day? that's just silly and it looks silly.
i agree with PikaPerson01, depends on the girl and what their style is, but generally I find girls who wear clothes that fit them well (tight) and show off there curves and hourglass figure to be very attractive. As for shoes I would say Jordan's or Nikes.
you want to look hot ? lots of girls think some clothes lok totally sexy when guys just don't at all see it. guys like clothes that show your body, you don't really have to show a lot of skin to be hot, as long as the shape of your body is visible, we like it =) depends though, if your body looks good we like it as long as we know about it, but if you have an ugly body we will only like it less the more we see, so this is a hard question really.
Well, I'll risk an answer even though kismett will probably reward me with a profanity filled rant.
I find it attractive when I can see a woman put some extra effort into her appearance. For example, designer clothes (new, not raggedy), styled hair, tasteful jewelery, and good makeup. Beyond that, it almost doesn't even matter what the actual style is, as long as it's put together well.
Ditch all the short sh*t, you don't need it to look attractive. Wear classy clothes that cover up and don;t show cleavage or too much leg ( anything above the knee's is too much) You will look way more attractive and respectful. All the short sh*t looks trashy and looks like you have no respect for yourself.
Hope this Helps.
or you can wear what you want instead of what other people want you to...
the part of this question that concerns me is "I also don't wanna be too much of a slut" meaning that you still want to be a slut, just not to the extreme, yikes. respect yourself girl, if you don't no one else will