im pretty hairy for a girl. I have pale skin and dark hair (even though I'm blonde) but it makes me so self conscious. I don't like shaving just because I have super sensitive skin and I get ingrown hairs really bad as well as rashes, but I also got a low pain level which makes waxing unbearable (and no money for lazer haha). I have noticeable hair on my back, arms and certain areas on my face. This is gross but my butt crack is full of hair like a mans and my pubs are so thick. I just want to be hair free because I think that no one will ever love a hairy beast like me. Is there anything I can do? And is hair such a turn off for men?
Most Helpful Guy
I'm sorry so many people say it's a turn off. I don't think it matters. Your value isn't in how much hair or lack of hair you have. Two of my past girlfriends have had a hormonal imbalance that made them grow hair on their stomach or lower back. I didn't care one bit because of how I felt about them. Don't feel like you need to change just for someone to like you. You're not a hairy beast you're a beautiful girl and some people are just too shallow to see that. Also I love the whole pale skin and dark hair look and many still do.1
Most Helpful Girl
I know the struggle girl. Your skin gets less sensitive the more you shave. I still get a couple ingrown hairs and rashes, but it's way better than like 3 years ago. Just make sure you do peeling before and use moisturizer after. I only shave my legs and pubic area, I leave the arms and the few stomach hairs. No guy has ever complained :)1