question says pretty much all. I'm not ugly but I'm not pretty either. I find that men immediately treat me like a guy friend just because I don't have the sexy "girl" looks. I have a great personality tho, very outgoing, funny, adventurous, loyal, and sweet. somehow tho I'm thinking that doesn't really win men over. truthfully, what is your opinion. this is more for guys but girls are free to comment.
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I've thought about this particular question for a very long time, and I've come to the conclusion of "neither". For me, there is either a click or there isn't. You can find a girl who is physically attractive in every way possible to me, and there is a chance I would not want to be in a relationship with her. You can find a girl who personality wise is great. Nice, funny, smart, all of the good qualities, and there is a chance I would not want to be in a relationship with her. And finally, you can combine -both- of those, and have a girl is incredibly attractive, and a very caring, nice, etc, and I would -still- not want to be in a relationship with her. Why? Because if I don't feel right about dating her, I feel no spark, no chemistry, then I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with her, regardless of any other quality that can possibly be thought of.
To me, it all comes down to how I feel. If I feel something in between us, that is what's going to draw me in. Nothing else.3