My boyfriend says he only ever subconsciously looks at any other women... he said he scans everyone the same - women AND men just like viewing his surroundings. He said he might see a girl and think she's attractive or whatever and then he looks away and stops as soon as he catches himself... and that he never thinks prolonged thoughts of how someone is really hot and thinks how he wants to see her ass or anything like that and that he himself thinks that would be disrespectful. So is it true that anytime I SEE him look at another girl - he may not realize he did it and actually NOT remember the girl when I ask later? I'm talking like only 5 minutes later? Can it really be that quickly forgotten in some men's brains?
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I look at things all the time. Whether it's male, female, human, animal, or inanimate is irrelevant. It is certainly possible. I look subconsciously to make sure I'm not running into people as I walk by them. I look at people's faces in case it's someone I'm obligated to greet. I look at people's hands to make sure they aren't going to mug me. Looking at things does not equate to checking out other women.1