Like instead of a T-shirt, if you wear a button up or a collared shirt for the occasion... why does that seem to turn girls off? If I like a girl I want to look nice and presentable for her, not just like its just casual and ya know, whatever...
Idk I'm a guy that likes to show some class and some respect for a girl I'm interested... but then I seem to "come off too serious" and I'm fairly certain that image and dress plays into that a little bit. I'm not looking for a relationship to play games tho. I want to make a genuine run at things with whatever girl I pursue. I don't pursue many, I'm picky, but I look for someone I can have a real future with.
Is this where my timing is all off? because the girls I'm pursuing aren't ready for a serious relationship? I'm only 19 but I'm mature and I'm a good guy and only looking for the right reasons.
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personally, I don't think its a turn off if a guy wears a collared shirt, like lets say I was going on a date with a guy to get some dinner and a movie, I think it'd be cute if a guy wore a collared shirt, it shows he actually wants to make a good impression on me, and doesn't want to be like other guys who always wear t-shirts when they take a girl out. I don't think wearing a collared shirt would make you come off too serious, that's just dumb if a girl tells you that. Also, I don't really think your clothes will show a girl you respect them, your gestures, motives, and actions will let a girl know if your really into her and respect her. I also don't think your timing is off, maybe your going for girls who are just into partying and stuff, that's how most of my friends are and they're 19 -20. but ya, about the collared shirt, your good on wearing them. hope I helped :)1
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