The thing is, I'm 25 (people tell me I look 19), I'm getting my 2nd degree (photography and graphic designer) and I've been working as a translator in the same company since I was 19, I pay for my own schooling, love reading, hate TV, love going camping, playing football, and I adore my friends and family.
Thing is I've noticed that not many guys take me seriously because of the way I look; I have blue and black hair and several tattoos so you can imagine how I dress.
One glance and most think I'm a drunken wild child and that's getting on my nerve, I find it offensive because I went through hell and back to get back in school, to have an education, my mom did a hell of a great job teaching me about self respect so any weirdo can just come up to me and sink my self esteem.
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well, to be honest the way a person dresses/how they carry themselves is all someone knows at first glance. if you dress like a wild child then that's what people are GOING to see in you. once they get to know you then their opinion will certainly change accordingly, but until that time you're sending out vibes all the time... if you don't like the ones that you're sending then maybe its time for a change... if not then you have to accept the way people are going to look at you.2
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