Am I one of those girls? I only seem to be attracted to some guys. Not the nice guys that are my friends. They are such good people. But some good looking guys who are kinda flaky. Why is this? I can't even imagine dating most of my friends, its just that I like them so much as people and friends, and that I have no romantic feelings for them. I value them emotionally though, and spiritually as they are really great. What's the part missing here? Is it only how I imagine a guy should look or be, or is there something else that I'm missing. I just actually want to be in a happy and caring relationship, the same way that my guy friends care about me. How come the guys who do treat me right I don't find attractive?
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Okay since I am one of those "nice guys" I will try to answer this. Nice guys like me usually try to get into the friend zone and than going to the next level of boyfriend and girlfriend from that position, we like to get to know the person first before anything, the bad guys (If they are cute) will try to get you on pretty much the first few days after they get your number, they play their game on you guys that love bad guys and you fall for it like a trap like edgar334 said, around your mid 30s once your bad guy relationships fail, you will wish you had the "nice guy" from the start that has always been there for you. I don't know how you girls can't date your "friends" What's wrong with dating your friends? Do you like going out with complete strangers that you barely met or someone who you know and trust won't do you wrong?1
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