So I'm 16 years old and well ugly.I've never been kissed,never had a boyfriend and never done anything sexual and I know it's because I'm not pretty.I'm not one of those ugly girls who bashes really pretty girls,I love Megan Fox and Adriana Lima and really beautiful girls like that.But I don't ever expect to get married or have a boyfriend,I've accepted that I'll probably be alone forever and that's cool.And it doesn't help that in my little circle of friends,which is 5 of us,I'm the ugly one and my friends are all gorgeous and always get hit on,so I guess I'm basically the "token" person ya know?There's a name for that I can't remember but anyways.I wear make-up,workout and wear cute clothing and have good hygiene and I've tried all of the confidence in the world but that doesn't help especially when people start making fun of you in front of you if that makes sense.Well while I know I'm ugly it's something I've come to terms with,I still do think about it all of the time and really really wish I could be pretty.There's been times when I've cried myself to sleep thinking about it.I have hobbies,I'm in band and color guard and I play a few instruments and I'm certainly not a nerd especially grade wise,so I keep myself busy,but idk.advice?
I can tell you the make-up I wear...anything please?I just want to look decent for at least one day of my life
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Sweetheart, let me tell you I was in the same boat as you and in some ways I still am. I cried myself to sleep before, I felt like I would never get married or find someone to love me beyond my looks. BUT I learned that we are all beautiful in our own way. We sometimes don't see the beauty in ourselves that others see. For example: I always thought I had the ugliest face in the world, yet when I get the confidence to stop thinking about my looks and just be myself. People (guys and all) told me that I had one of the best smiles they had ever seen. I get these things when I'm dressed like normal (not super cute), without makeup and around beautiful girls. I'm not sitting here trying to brag, I want you to understand that in time you will come across guys that see what is SO GREAT in you!
BTW, those people who tease you will look like hell in 10-15 years where (as adenyhl said) You will be blossoming. I'd love to see a pic of you and tell you exactly what is beautiful about you.
My heart truly goes out to you and I hope I helped in even a small way :)34
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