I have always wondered what a guy looks for in a girl in order to acquire a relationship. I mean this personality wise, as well as in the physical sense. Thanks for any replies!
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I like what Sofee said, but the smart, intelligent, independent part. well, I think some guys are turned off by women who are smarter and more driven than they are. That's what I've noticed at least. Guys seem to need to be able to do guy things for a girl as well. Understandable and desirable, but if a chick can spackle and change her own brakes on her car and knows (or say even teaches) calculus (all like me) a lot of guys are intimidated. Once you know a man datewise, you have to in some respects make them feel special and more capable than you are in something, and that those points are desirable, which they are! Women who are too independent and able to do for themselves in all areas, well I think it cheats a guy out of their subconscience (maybe innate is a better word) desire to take care of their girl. I believe making a man feel like he is a good, no great, man to be with is very important. that includes so much: being attentive, considerate, kind, and fun, dressing up and looking hot, turning waaay naughty in the bedroom, knowing who you are and what you want and that you want him, caring about the things they hold dear, that they need to be able to trust you with being themselves where no one else is allowed to see,. jeez the list goes on. I realize I'm just a chick, but this is just what I've found about men and their desires for traits in a girlfriend. Hope this helps0