does any one else out there think they are not very physically attractive?
I know I'm not attractive...LOL... I have never had a girlfriend or any physical relationships and I'm not worried about that... at 30 I don't even care about not finding that special person... I never had the drive to meet and want to date ever... even as a kid.
I have good friendship with 2 or 3 females and I know better then to even think about them in a physical way because of my looks and my size. So I don't haven a social problem...
At 290 lbs its hard in this world of slim people so I know weight is an issue,. I can already see post saying hit the gym do more to lose some of the weight Lardo Boy!
I do work on my size...but not to get girls but to be healthy
Oh don't get me wrong... I'm not fat I'm just a big dude... always have been which is why no one in high school ever tried to seek me out.
At University same thing not girls to date nor did I try to because I knew the ending of the story before its even told...
I am not the type of person that waste time so ...at 6'1 290... not many people find big dudes that good looking... Just being real!
So my question is I can't be the only one that feels this way about themselves.
To all my nonphysically attractive people... sound off let me hear you... Don't be shy... please share your stories of success and failures.
Thanks so much!
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I don't know where to start...i consider myself unattractive on a bad day, average on a good one but I've been told I'm good looking by girls who like me. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I stopped chasing after girls when the chase became sort of mundane, it was the same tactic, same relationship, same breakup and ultimately the same "ima rub my new boyfriend in your face attitude"... I've met a few girls that kept me on my toes and would have loved to date them but they were dating already. others that weren't were trying to get back with the guys that ditched em and were coming to me for help (blech). I luckily have a body most girls consider sexy but my face isn't something that makes front page. I still get girls if I work at it...my unconscious trick is my air of mystery...they ALL wanna know who I am...and I tell em but they don't believe it...well as long as it keeps em around.
Im like you, I know the ending of the story before it begins but I always give it a shot and 4/5 times...(if not everytime) that stubborness costs me. not many girls can take real guys tho they claim to want that. I've got a question for you...if you like a girl..and then there's just one or two things about her that you don't like..does it turn you off completely?0