I am not very tan and I'm not that pale, but then again I'm not trying to be tan. I don't purposefully tan like all the other girls, so I'm wondering if its a turnoff for girls to be tan, or if guys really like tan girls.
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I do not like tan girls, especially the ones who do it so much they look like a purse.
I like the normal color of a girl. If your are outside a lot because of sports or hanging out and your develop that kind of tan, than that's fine. I hate it when girls go to tanning beds or spray on because they think everyone cares about that so much.
My girlfriend plays soccer and runs track and cross country, so she is sort of tanned but not in the tanning kind of way. She will be red sometimes on her neck or her nose, and that's just cute.
Don't be fake, be yourself and let someone like you for who you are, not what you get from a tanning bed or from sitting out in the sun for no reason other than what you think everyone wants.6