why do men look at other women when they are in a relationship? I mean hello if you say you love me and I got everything you want then why do you look at other women making me feel like I don't got everything. like I'm not good enough.
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They look at other women because there are other humans on the planet. I'd think it awfully selfish and asking a lot if you didn't want him even glancing at other women. I seriously doubt you look down every time there's another man present within sight around you.
Just because he's with you doesn't mean that his libido goes out the door. I don't think glancing at other women would be wrong. Now if he's staring obsessively and going "Ohhh baby would you look at *that*!", then yes, I would say that's way out of line. If he says he loves you, hugs you, goes home with you, and is with you, then I don't see the harm in the occasional glance. I'd not expect a girlfriend to hide her eyes every time a guy walks by. Now again, if she started going "Hey baby!" and moaning and rubbing herself, yes, that'd be taking it a wee bit too far. ;)
Just glancing at other humans is human nature. Just because someone is involved doesn't mean they shouldn't make eye contact with anyone else.