I've been told by guys that they don't go for likes and I think its bull. what do guys honestly look for?
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Looks are of minimal importance. A book with an AWSOME cover can suck bad once you open the cover.
I knew a women who by any standards was homely at best. By the time I had worked with her for about a year, she became one of the more beautiful women I know.
Sounds shallow? It would be if it was a choice. How do you think blind people fall in love? Why for all the REAL reasons of course.
It is a waste of time trying to create a list of things we are attracted too. As soon as we figure it out along comes a woman who has us starting a new list.
We don't get to pick who we are attracted to. Along with looks there are other factors most people don't even know about. Ever hear of pheromones? This a huge part of initial attraction. Body language is right up there as well.
You can't distill this down to a formula you can just whip up and wear. You won't be you. Want a white knuckle ride to low self esteem? Just wander on down that path. Your next question will be headed "HELP! He's in love with my alter ego" or "We have nothing in common but he won't leave".
Gimme a blindfold and a wonderful self assured personality.
Of course, you can get lucky and end up with the whole package. I'm just glad she never wanted to model for Playboy...I don't like sharing *grins*4