I see this EVERDAY ( hard for anyone NOT 2 notice ) the girl with the short shorts on or the girl with the ultra short mini. The girl wearing what appears to be some sort of lingerie ( although I assume its not ) and just not giving a DAMN . I'm all for free will and what not , but it makes me wonder can what guys see influence the value that they place on you at that very second ? MAJORITY of guys go crazy at the slightest hint of skin why ? I was always taught that you should leave something to the imagination with recent trends in fashion it makes it harder. HOWEVER I manage . I get just as much attention with all my clothes on so what's the difference ? How can what we have on depend on how sexy we are overall ?
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From my own personal view, I think its about where you stand, what you feel comfortable in, how you want people to look at you, how well you can carry yourself without getting the bad attention. When girls start dressing more openly and show off more then enough skin, they are bound to land wrong type of guys. The attention they receive may not be the type of attention they want - but then again, depending on the personality, you may actually be seeking the wrong focus.
I think it’s important to leave something to be discovered in the latter. Some women usually choose to go overboard with showing off their skin to - in many times - fit in, feel good about themselves (maybe due to the fact of low self-esteem). Which ever the case might be, it all comes back to you. It depends on you whether you want to seem easy and "whore-like" - as people would automatically claim labels. If you feel comfortable in doing what you do, clothes on or off, then by all means who's to stop you? But, the consequences will largely effect others judgments and opinions on your character as well as other aspects of you. The “clothes-off” look may help you feel like the sexiest women in the world but it can very well affect the way you hint your personality to others. And while appearence hooks the opposite sex, personality is what derives the final relationship.