There's a girl who I went on a couple dates on, who basically rejected me after that. That's okay because I don't think she's my type, but the problem is that she's very good looking, so I still find myself wanting her. I get jealous when I see her with other guys and when I think about other guys kissing her or getting farther with her than I did. Is this just a natural thing borne out of inexperience?
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I think you're looking at it completely the wrong way.
Try to look at it that, YOU'RE the lucky one that got away...
Let me explain.
The girl you described is exactly the type I've experienced and they are what I call the 'One Way Street'. All they ever think about is themselves and themselves only...they don't give two hoots about your feelings, and communication and admiration only goes one way - towards them. If you want to find the right girl you must find one where the same amount of love reciprocates back towards you.
Yes this girl was attractive and yes this girl was with you for that short amount of time however it was. But it now probably looks like she was stringing you along. For someone who is only caring about themselves (which this girl was), you are glad you are out of her life.
You should be glad that you didn't get into bed with her...otherwise what happened could have been a lot worse. After you lost your body with her she continues to date and bed other guys...how would that make you feel? Probably sick I would imagine. Men tend to forget that they too are precious and they too have things such as their dignity and pride which is not easily shared. You must remember this.
The great thing is, there is no need to worry for you, because you've gone past that stage where there's no going back. The best thing about this is...there are better girls that are out there in the world who are waiting for you right now. You must believe this! There was a real reason you broke up with that girl and that is she wasn't meant for you. If you keep this thought strong in mind, sooner or later the person that will undoubtedly suite you and love you for who you really are will eventually find you and be with you.
Hope that helps.2
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