My best friend has modeled for Victoria's Secret, so she obviously has a slamming body and beautiful face. Girls always say she's OK or average, nothing special. Guys say she's hot and one of the most stunning women they've ever seen. Do you think girls rate her lower out of jealousy, or do you think they judge attractiveness differently than guys?
Most Helpful Girl
From experience, I think that girls judge other girls much more critically than guys do. Since most girls do have body insecurities it's easy for other girls to use that against them. If a guy got mad at another guy and said, "Well, at least my triceps are bigger!" I doubt the other guy would care that much. But if a girl got mad at another girl and said, "Well, at least I'm not fat. And by the way my boobs are bigger." then the girl would most likely be really upset and offended. I don't think that all girls say things like this to other girls because they are insecure or jealous. For the most part, I think it's because girls know that saying these things will upset the girls they say it to. Girls tend to be petty, mean, and drama starters.. Not all of them, but a large majority. I've said things like this to girls I didn't like, not out of insecurity or jealousy at all, but simply because I knew it would bother them. But I do agree with you that there are a lot of girls who say things like this because they are insecure or jealous.3