I am 27 and single, I have blond hair, a larger bust than most and am about an average weight. I have clear skin, dark brown eyes. I like dressing feminine you could say. I am a bit shy but sweet, caring. Probably more introverted but not extremely. Anyway the problem is I ONLY seem to attract old men! I mean over 45 years old. The only other people who find me attractive are women who always say you're so pretty why don't you have a boyfriend?! Men who are around the age I'm looking for (27 to 35 ish) don't seem to ever give me a second glance but older men follow me around and stop and stare constantly, all me friends comment on this all the time. do you know anything I might be doing wrong that would only attract older men?
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You are probably one of a few things, Mademoiselle:
1. Very mature and put together for your age
2. Highly intelligent or engaged professionally in what you do
3. and/or very exotic looking, intimidating perhaps?
From what you write, younger men may feel like they are either no match for you, or they may be intimidated by some aspect of your sex appeal. Without seeing a photo, that would be hard to judge.
I can tell you this: Attracting older men at your age is not necessarily a good thing. Keep in mind a 45 year old man is most likely more established than a younger man. I am 38, and all I can say is that I am glad I am not 28 - LOL - At my age, and older, there are few games, more direct communication.
I would take this as a compliment. You could always try going after younger men that fit the description above... you might be pleasantly surprised to learn they are out there.0