Okay, I'm not talking about doing it in the park or on a plane bullshit. I'm talking about threesomes, watching two girls, or just having a very promiscuous life style. My husband's always joking about doing threesomes or wanting me to do a chick, or even seeing me with other guys, two at a time even. The other day he was talking to a friend at his work, with me there, and they started joking about how the guy works at USI and how he's around all those college girls, how he must go home to his wife and "bang" her after all that. Then my husband turns to me and said "hey babe, can I go work at a college", I basically blew him off and said "yeah, but you'll be single", he laughed and then said something like "yea best of both worlds". Now ya'll know from my last question, I don't have much self esteem, but should I be worried about him talking about his little fantasies too much? Or is it just guys being macho or something?
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I am in constant laughter at your husband.
Okay, you again? [said jokingly]
Its totally a phase.
I mean, some of it just sounds like jokes.
Just know a fantasy, is a fantasy.
I know as a guy, I would like for my girl to fulfill my fantasies.
Lucky for her that I have already had the threesome thing, and the girl on girl.
It would just be a dream come true to have our women fulfill our every fantasy.
That seeing you with other guys, two at a time even, doesn't sound. . . .?Right?Man-ly?
Men don't like to share whats, exclusively theirs. Women either!
Thats one reason I feel as though he is joking about most of it. I mean he seems like he has a great sense of humor.
You could always fake to pursue the idea of another guy, and see how he reacts, but that may cause a problem. Be careful how you use this approach.
Fantasies are not always something we look to have fulfilled.
Just find out how bad he really wants to do these fantasies.
I hope that helped.
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